With his outstanding performance in the movie "Removing the Three Evils in the Week", Ruan Jingtian has returned to the public eye again. The variety shows he participated in in in the past have become the object of "archaeology" by netizens, and many wonderful scenes have been excavated.
Recently, a quote from the 2021 Zhejiang TV reality show "Nian Nian Nian Peach Blossom Land" made headlines. In the show, Ruan Jingtian revealed that his parents had divorced and expressed his support for the decision, believing that "mother’s happiness is the most important thing." He and his younger brother Ruan Jingmin made a video call to his mother on the show. His mother laughed and said: "I’m single now, so happy!" and politely rejected Ruan Jingmin’s offer to help her get married, "now it’s very good."
"I thought they shouldn’t have divorced," says Mr. Ruan. "My mother is in her 60s and should make her happier." He admits that despite their divorce, they are still their parents and nothing will change. "If separating makes them happier, then leave."
Ruan lived with his grandparents when he was a child. After primary school, his mother made a living by running a small black tea shop, pulling Ruan Jingtian up. He once revealed in an interview that his father was often absent during his growth process, and the relationship between father and son was once tense. As Ruan Jingtian got older, he began to forgive his parents. In the interview, he said: "When we grow up and our parents grow old, we should no longer treat each other as parents, because there is no room for mistakes in the word’parents’. When we have more vision, we should treat our parents as children, because it is their turn to learn and make mistakes. The giant you once thought of, one day you will become his giant, and it is your turn to tolerate and understand them."
Reporter, Hu Guangxin, intern, Fan Yuqing
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